Indian Girl Story

बहुत समय बाद एक दम्पति के घर में खुशियाँ आई, एक शिशु के रूप में। उस दम्पति को तो जैसे जीवन जीने का एक सहारा मिल गया। साथ ही अब वो अपने रिश्तेदारों के चुभने वाले प्रश्नों के जवाब भी दे सकते थे। भारत में अगर आप समाज के साथ न चले या आपका जीवन बहुत से उतार-चढाव से गुजरे तो समझ लीजिये की आपके
नाते - रिश्तेदार आपको ये हर पल याद दिलाते रहेंगे की आप एक असामान्य जीवन जी रहे हैं। भले ही आपके लिए वो एक जीवन की सच्चाई हो और आप उस कड़वे सच की आदत डाल ले लेकिन भारतीय समाज अपनी भारतीयता को कैसे त्याग सकता है।
हम फिर से उस दम्पति के परिवार की कहानी शुरु करते हैं - वो शिशु एक बालिका के रूप में विकसित होने लगी। उसके माता-पिता न कभी भी उसकी परवरिश एक बिटिया समझ के नही की । ये बात परिवार के बुजुर्गो को अखरती थी। उस दम्पति न अपनी बिटिया का नाम "आदर्श" रखा। वो तो जैसे समाज से विद्रोह का मन बना चुके थे ।
धीरे धीरे आदर्श एक युवती के रूप में ढलने लगी लेकिन उसके अंदर पुरुषत्व की भी कमी नही थी। वह खेल कूद, शिक्षा, संगीत में तो आगे थी ही समय पड़ने पर वो अपने दोस्तों की मदद करने से भी पीछे नही हटती थी। आदर्श को आत्मसम्मान से जीने की कला अपने परिवार से मिली जहाँ उसके माता-पिता ही उसके शिक्षक थे। उन्होंने उसे आत्मनिर्भर बनने मे पूरा योगदान दिया।
आदर्श भी अपनी जिम्मेदारियों को बखूबी समझती थी। वो ये जानती थी की एक आत्मनिर्भर व्यक्ति ही एक आत्मनिर्भर राष्ट्र की बुनियाद रख सकता है। हमारे समाज को आज आदर्श जैसी युवतियों की दरकार है। एक सफल युवती ही एक सफल परिवार और अंत मे एक सफल समाज की बुनियाद रख सकती है।
हमे उनका सम्मान करने के साथ साथ उन्हें आगे बढ़ने के अवसर प्रदान करने चाहिए क्योंकि आधे समाज का अपमान करके कोई समाज उन्नति नही कर सकता।

PS : Picture is taken from Internet.

I wish to be a GIRL

I wish to be a girl!!!

I want to be the part of that half world which always raised their voice against discrimination
throughout their life.
How it seems when someone arrive on this earth with a tag of "Girl" which are considered as a
second entity in this men dominated world.
What i feel when i am the most vulnerable entity, easily persuaded.

From the day one when i opened my eyes in this world
I want to feel my parents anxiety that how i compete in this world because i am a GIRL.

I want to feel my mother's love, the devotion i learned from my mom.
She gives me the more of her abilities, never ever feels me deprived but i know that
she also suffers in this world. She never say anything but the language of eyes are above all.

Only as a girl i can feel all that emotions which she wants to express but she also knows
that as the time passed i learned all those things even circumstances taught me those lessons.


I wish to be a girl!!!

As the time passed i feel to be a teenager. Whereever i go i make peoples happy but wait i also
feel that they wants to touch me (side-effect of a girl).
I have more knowledge about colors, feelings, art as of boys and always praised for my work. Mom guides me always what should i do and what i don't.

As the time passes i am growing physically ,intellectually and morally. I learned that society
expects sacrifice at every stage. Even Sacrifice is synonyms to Women.
I face verbal as well as non-verbal violence against me. Whenever i go outside of my home dozen
of staring eyes are remain with me throughout my way. I am getting habitual of all that but scared that if someone crossed their limit then what i do?


I wish to be a girl!!!

If i talk to many boys then they called me Prostitute but if they talked to multiple girls then
it's their smartness.
Since now i am growing as a young lady so my parents are worried about
my marriage. Society don't expect that a lady can survive alone in this world. So they wants
a bodyguard for a girl.
When i am child, my father acts like that, upto my marriage my younger brother guards me, after my marriage my husband guards me. If i get a son then he also guards me. So i have guards throughout my life still i am easily vulnerable at every stage of my life.

After marriage, my responsibilities increased multiple times. Now everyone wants sacrifice even
my second life started with my wedding. Everyone tells me how to do things, how to behave with
others?

The most important lesson taught by my mother is that i should remain cheerful as everyone expects compromise by my side without raising my voice.

When i am pregnant, they wants me to drop my baby because another girl is growing inside me. I protest. Because i want to change the future. I want to change the tradition.

I want to feel all that.
I wish to be a girl!!!

Footpath Girl

footpath is just a part of our life.
But for someone its a life...a whole life which starts from footpath and ends on footpath
and if thatone is a handicapped then its the worst God can do with someone.
I saw a little girl around 6/7 years old who's one leg is disabled...
She's begging in a market where the persons belonging to a civilized society came to enjoy.
There are restaurants, malls, various stalls of food-items and lot of otherstuff to be enjoyed as a part of weekend.Peoples are spending a valuable part of their money.
But that girl wants just a coin of one or two rupee nothing more in
comparison to the investment made in Pizza's or Burgers or some other
items.
Some gave money, some's arn't, some are more kind and give her their used items.
Even its all depend upon the kindness of that person which is begged by her.
If she perceived someone kind in most cases these are girls or ladies
with childrens then she spent a more time there but not everyone having
coins - Her bad luck :(
As the night's darkness increased she is going to her tent with the food
she bought by the money she got that night.
Atleast she can survive on that night.
Actually i guess that she prays to GOD that everyday is a weekend so that a lot of peoples came there and the probability of her income increases.
Where's the Government who boasts to give food, home and clothes to every Indian?
What's the purpose of running Antodaya Anna Yojana(For Poorest of Poorer) ??

A Middle Class Girl

As 2009 begins a Shocking event of my life happened.
On 26th January night, A newly married girl is murdered in Dwarika, Delhi.
Murderer is Her husband and the guts of that Crook is that he accepts that without any sorrow.
On 12th Dec 2008 they married.
The Girls family eagerly waiting for their elderly daughter's marriage event almost a year before. Almost All relatives are invited because the First Marriage in one's family retain a special place. Parents can do anything to make that event successful afterall they just want to make their children happy and prosperous.
Even a middle class family can do anything to make that a biggest Event ...
The Happiest Moment of their loved one's.
But All that is vanished just a person's psycho ... just after 45 days of her marriage SHE is no more.
But why SHE even SHE had all the qualities of a Traditional Indian Women... SHE perfectly played the role of an Obedient daughter, helping Sister and the other social roles.
SHE got the reward of all those in the form of HER's Murder.
GOD BLESS HER
Why GOD gifted the man to take other's Life???